I had an sms (text) exchange with a man who I know a little, but we communicate regularly.
He is “a strong man”, a hard physically working man, feelings and emotions are held under control. Or at least that is what he thinks about himself and how he lives.
Even when a very close person in his family died, he could not cry.
It finally happened in connection to a visit from another close member of his family, and he immediately “packed” himself back into his “strenght” right after, denying his “fragile moment”.
He said it was a Waterfall of Tears, and as he thought it was finally finished, it bursted out again.
I complimented him for sharing with me, and for allowing himself to be “touched” by “vulnerability” .
Much is needed to some of us to open and let go…
And… even more to show ourselves to somebody else when we are “small”.
And…when we are “cracked” once, the Water of Tears may find its way again.:)
Vulnerability can be a Powerful sign of Inner Strenght.
Probably, or maybe, if you knew how it felt, it would be different? Noise!
It feels like Violence, it feels like Pain, it feels like one’s Solar plexus, or Heart or Head, or Stomach, or them all, are being penetrated and tortured.
It feels like one is being badly hurt, even like knives, to the “Sensitive “.It becomes Hell!
We are talking much of habitat, green, sustainable….Who is talking about Noise? Shouldn’t the Green Change should contain this part too?
If we thought and considered for a while HOW MUCH PAIN we inflict others, it may help a little?
(Some of the “Sensitive ” are considered “nuts”…. It is “our own fault”…. then if you are rich you can buy very good earplugs, price from 1200 DKK. ,problem solved, and gently you are cut out).
Are we aware of the Power of Noise, and what it does on EVERYONE’S SYSTEM, NERVES, STRESS and its contribution to sickness? We better get aware soon.
Did you not HEAR THE DIFFERENCE in the city? HEAR THE DIFFERENCE UN RECREATIONAL AREAS TOO!
Are we aware of the Power of Silence, of how Healing it can be, and the difference it can make?
I Dream…. And it should be a HUMAN RIGHT….
ONE DAY ONCE IN A WHILE WITHOUT CARS OR MACHINES…
GLOBAL, WORLDWIDE, SOON!
💚💛💚 on Grateful Ness for the moments of Silence that still exist.☺
… Maybe we have been watching ourselves extra closely, noticing we may not have “grown” as much as we thought, discovering that some of the “bricks” we thought were stable on our path are gone, our “security” is trembling?
Maybe we were searching for new inspiration, new ideas, and got stuck in the older “self”, and patterns? Then “corona” appeared.
When less “social connection/entanglement” is present, looking “in” may be scary, our honesty and clarity can become “a weapon” against ourselves, our self-observation a violent hindrance.
“Where is my Power, where is my Power?” we may ask, and see no answer.
The process of Healing takes forgiveness, patience, energy, and time.
We may need to examine all our “little achievements and victories” instead!
And have a little Break?
Get some Quality Time, for ourselves.
We are forced to Retreat more then usual. It is a great opportunity, let us enjoy it and use it.
Mother Nature is there, Spring is glowing and growing right now.
Get out there, get refreshed! Contact Spiritual Friends and Helpers! Trees and “All Our Relations”!
Then we will be able to bloom again.
All Our Relations are all the Living Beings we share our Earth with (Rocks too), including the Elements (Air, Fire, etc), the Sky and the Celestial Beings like Sun, Moon, Stars, etc., and Space .
Through all this time (corona) one of my main concerns has been what and how to do in order to “help”.
I know and believe much is being done, also surely much I am not aware of, since my relation with the net is little.
And for that THANK YOU dear People for what You are doing!
We …
Hope that We will go through Ok.
Hope that “economy ” will be somehow Ok for who needs.
Hope We will be a better World after our unwished “Hybernation”,
and We will be Stronger in Body, Emotions, Mind and Spirit.
We will.💚
Since I work with Shamanism I am “serving” our community in the small ways I can.
The following are ” ideas” for “common good”.
My intention is to maybe inspire, and to sign up for more “responsabilities” on my side as well.
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Tips….tips…. Sure We all got many…
Time to do…
Your Ideas, Our Ideas.
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These ones are of “plain Human kind”, to use regardless Your Belief system.
? Establish telephone or net connection with your Friends and enlarge it to other People (if wished/needed) to share or on specific themes.
? Establish “corona” exchange about how to go through this time of Isolation (especially You who is locked in) with creative ideas, collected in few sentences, so many can tell/write.
? Use Your talents and share what You can, how you can.
? Collect/share stories from/with People.
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On my side …
I will keep Earth and Human Healing meditation every day at 11.
And distant Healing and fullMoon as usual.
I will be doing different and simple Healing meditations on line in Italian and English (date coming soon on fb) so ANYONE can be with,
… some talks, Drumming sessions (drums to Heal, and to enjoy), (for free),
some other activities ( lets see what is possible),
“teachings” and “walks” also (not all free sorry).
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And…I will allow myself to remind You that…
Since no money comes in here… clairvoyance, some Healing, and other kinds of work can be done without meeting in person.
I was on the beautiful Tenerife, mostly off line most times.
There had been very chaotic and controversial news about when and if and how People could fly back home. Flights cancelled, airports full, a mess. Lands were closing down, guests were confused and worried. Government had to decide what to do on the islands in the night…
Our hostel lady was preoccupied too.
I overheard some explanation in Spanish next morning about it was forbidden to go out there too now, packed my water and sandwich, and rushed out the door. It was my last day before, maybe, hopefully, flying back. What to do? Live!
My plan was to visit a Mountain I had fallen in Love with, and it had not been possible because of the Storm strong Wind blowing on the last days. Now or maybe never.
Even though police was already out checking, I managed to get away. I walked further and further away from the little city.
I spent a wonderful full day on the Mountain, and fell even more in Love with it.
Then eve came, and it got colder and Wind grew.
I walked on the Beaches as long as I could, hiding a little just in case…
Few cars around, some runners, some Dog walkers…
…approaching… the little city had fallen asleep, everything locked up.
Two supermarkets opened with lines of waiting People, and new rules…
All felt awkward, a strange movie, now it was reality. Creeps.
While waiting in line, suddenly I could hear clapping.
The clapping grew more and more.
“Yes yes, we are here, we are Living!”
“We are locked up, but together about this!”
The clapping said. What a relief!
It was profound, it was beautiful, it warmed my Heart, it made me happy.
Good Simple Medicine we can do Together in hard times! 🙂
There are million ways to do it: a basic difference is whether you belong/wish/or wanna be in a tradition or you are on your own. In most traditions, many clues are provided, the way is clear and more or less fixed.
In shamanism we work differently, or at least I do: my spirit Guides give directions and guidance, and my experience and intuition provide the “container”. In the ceremony the participants are also “taken care of”, in the way that the ceremony ‘s elements are expressed and explained before hand, in order to best support each person in their intention and with the experience they have.
Because of “things are made clear”, each one can then “let go “and trust both the “guidance”and the “process”. No more thinking necessary, let us make Magic! 🙂
I have been “criticized” (just once, but it gives me possibility to explain here!) for taking both experienced and unexperienced participants on the same ritual or ceremony. But, you see….My work and “mission” given from my Guides, is to “bring People back to themselves and to Nature” . If I can be of help on “opening” anyone to their own Power, and on “taking responsibility for how deep and serious they can do the work”, and Trust, I have done some good. Then… “experienced” and “unexperienced” (and all blah blah on “levels”) become just words. We do the Work.
The core significance of winter Solstice is common, I would dare to say in most paths: it is one of the 8 powerful Energy moments of the year, maybe the most powerful one.
In the deepest “Missing of Light”, our Trust in the Sun shall be reborn.
In the deepest of Sorrow the Seed of Hope is reborn.
In the deepest Dark, like from the Womb, we are created, and recreated.
Our Intention is clear, for a “better” Future. A rite of passage is at hand. We can choose to celebrate alone, or together with others, depending on who we are, our possibilities, and what we wish for.
Appreciations of the Gifts and Blessings we live in every day, are important. If the wish of “sharing” is present, we better connect and celebrate with like minds.
The ritual frame will be according to what you know if you are working alone. Needed object: a candle and a symbol of Life (evergreen, flower, herb). Create a special moment, reflect in the Dark first.
We may take wows, and give donations or gifts. We may end up “unfinished business”, clean up in any way we get inspired to. Celebrate!
We are Purifying ourselves by Thanking, Releasing, and Forgiving, not only for ourselves and our individual Good, but for common Good, to raise the common Consciousness, in a deeper Prayer.
We are blessing our Mother Earth and our Father Sun, wishing for global Health and Peace to manifest.
On 20 december I organize a “Vision Night!, and on 22 a Winter Solstice ceremony. Be welcome. See more info from the frontpage. And, anyways…Happy Solstice and all!
So Many gone, let me Honor You.Let us share the Memories, the Learnings, the Conquers and the Defeats…Let us see the Sharings we have had.Play and Dance with the Dead…
Play and Dance with Death and Life…Play and Dance with my many Deaths….Change Change Change…another Dimention…
It sounds to many so exotic, so far… Do you believe, don’t you believe….
I was talking with some People the other day, and they inspired me to write this.
The fact is, for the ones who have been in contact with “the real thing”, that it is definitely not only about past lives, spying if your lady is having an affair or not (I do not work with this one, no spying by me!), when or will I ever meet the love of my life, or such. Not to judge or diminish any need of clarity in any aspects, dear clients, ( that is why you come and ask), but…
There are lots of other possibilities… maybe more giving.
Seeing “clear” is the thing… When you cannot, because too much is going on, you are too involved, the “story behind” is “blurred and old”, (and sometimes no “human around” knows), or for thousands other reasons, “use us” well! (I mean my Helpers and I).
There is no total guarantee that my Helpers will answer, but it is absolutely worth giving it a try.
I like to tell a little story: sometime ago, I had a client who, to my surprise, always wore “synthetic clothing” (baaad! _:) ). One day I asked why. His answer was that natural clothing felt very uncomfortable, he could not wear “natural” for as long as he could remember…That was strange…but I did not want to push, until one day he finally asked me to “look” at it. So we did.
The place looked grey and dark, smelled strange, and shadows were around, big shadows… He was a kid, and retreated in corners away from those shadows, but had no real place to hide…It smelled like “burned”, it was uncomfortable…
My Helpers kept on showing this one picture again and again until he bursted in tears…
Now he remembered! As a kid he had been living with his grandmother, by whom he did not feel so good: one of her “specials” was to dry clothes by the big stove, and often the clothes touched the stove, provoking this terrible smell he could not stand or go away from. Moreover, in his kid phantasy, the shadows were unknown monsters which he had to hide from, but could not. This had resulted in a life long hidden stable trauma.
He had forgotten all about it and, since the memory was painful, it had been suppressed. After the “revelation”, his challenge vanished.
It is often than once we understand and “feel” blocks disappear, though not always. At times one has to work on, and in any case invest some energy to progress in the new condition.
One more little story, this one about a relation: the two loved each other, but she was into a massive personal development period, and he felt a little “left behind”. The question was how she could “embrace him” without “forgetting herself”, slow down, or “be unfair” either to herself or him, and eventually how to “help him” (without manipulation) regain his power and growth.
My Helpers explained what was going on, and showed the powers he had, which had gone into oblivion, his parent and family influences on him, how he could use some of them, and release the limitations part and patterns, by recognizing they were not his.
How future will be for this couple I do not know yet, but she wrote to me the same night, telling that they had have the “best and deepest talk” for a long long while….:)
And I am happy for them and proud of my Helpers and me too. This is good work!:)
So…Use your clairvoyant wisely (you might as well)!
Consult us for improving your Life or your relations, discovering “hidden treasures” in your Inner, recognizing “obstacles”, optimizing or improving strategies at work, or as impartial “Wise and knowing Counsellor”…..Yes! Please do…:)
I think I was lucky when my old Friend died, because, for some reason, the ambulance came to get him first after two and half hours from the moment I entered his home.
There had been time for Friends to come, for us to say our last bye bye, to sing for him, wish him the best, and hold a circle. Time had enlarged, so we could do what we felt we needed to, shortly but effectively. Police were with us, and silently participated to what they called was “The most beautiful and touching “bye bye” they had ever experienced.
A couple of months ago , one of my Teachers died too. As I was talking to his wife, I told her I felt lucky and was very grateful for that “time”. She was chocked. They had had her husband in their house for two days, and, as she expressed “It was not even enough!”. The family and friends could have used more “time”.
In the “old days”, still in villages and other countries, many Dead are kept for a time in their home, so all who need can come, visit, honor them, and greet them for the last time. In Italy we keep them in the chapel for a while.
There is a little more “TIME” for the departure to be fully felt and understood from all who feel that is right for them to do. Time for prayers, for the psyche to adapt, for sorrow or gratitude to express and thereby heal, whether we believe or not in the “after Life”, or Death maybe was the best that could happen.
What to do, how to change, is it an issue? I do not know, but…
Generally we are robbed of TIME all around in our society.
And we need to take care , and not rob ourselves, or anybody else.
If “Effectiveness is the measure of Truth” (the Huna principles, Serge King) it is probably wiser and healthier to allow “TIME” ( for sorrow, in this case), than use lots of money AFTER to repair our Bodies and Souls, sick from repression and frustration.
Many many years ago, I was initiated to Reiki, and lately, cleaning up in old papers, I found these long gone but never really forgotten, Principles. I like to share them with You.
One may find them a banality, but they are not, and I suppose one can use the ones one needs, according to who one is. I believe it is ok with the Reiki movement to share them as they are to a broader public, maybe it even is good publicity :), so thanx for that, Reiki People!
JUST FOR TODAY, I WILL LET GO OF ANGER.
JUST FOR TODAY, I WILL LET GO OF WORRY.
JUST FOR TODAY, I WILL GIVE THANKS FOR MY MANY BLESSINGS.
JUST FOR TODAY, I WILL DO MY WORK HONESTLY.
JUST FOR TODAY, I WILL BE KIND TO MY NEIGHBOR AND EVERY LIVING THING.
My dear Helpers, they are wonderful and wise: some of the things they say to me for my clients, can be both so “simple”, good reminders, or/and completely new and unthinkable. I like to share this one piece of simple wisdom with you.
Some time ago, I had a Mother with three children, man, and own work: obviously a busy lady. She felt she had not much room left for her own development as a person and as a woman, and she missed it.
Plenty of good and realistic advise was given to her, but she still wondered on how to deal with the reasonable amount of everyday’s activity and work at home: cleaning, cooking, shopping, and all that, as her husband himself was dealing with difficult personal issues, and therefore could only help a little.
My Helpers made her notice that there were many potential ways to deal with things. They counseled her on creating a new form for discipline: PLAY THROUGH WORK, or WORK as PLAY.
Of course , she had to figure out how to do that. But the lady got enthusiastic, og ja! she could definitively figure that out! Previously, in the same session, Helpers had told her she needs to play: one more play!:) She understood, and she liked it!
So, some of us complain and work, some of us are work addicts, some of us meditate by working, and some of us CAN PLAY!
For inspiration, through me, to You. Thanx, dear Helpers.
