Loss and Pain
In our society, everything being speedy and controlled, there is not much space for Pain.
After any kind of Death (and Deaths can be many, and of different kinds, “loosing”…), we often are confronted by the fact that “We better move on”, soon.
Pain seems not to be “accepted”, and Compassion is forgotten.
It seems that many of us do not like, or cannot deal with Pain from another fellow Being. It has gone so far that Pain is repressed, hidden, and it has almost became shameful, not to mention Grief, and Crying.
Or, opposite, is grown into a “cult”, with followers (media), and at times made into business.
Generally, most of our Living processes, are pushed, and pushed, and pushed, without respect for the one who is sitting in the middle of it.
Even the very precious Learning that comes from Loss, the deep one, is neglected, and missed.
Recover after Loss, after Death, after Separation, takes Time, this precious Time that we are told we do not have, or that we believe we do not own.
Patience! The results of not taking care of our Whole Being can lead to troubles and unbalances, that make our Life worse later on…
Why are we doing this to ourselves?
How are we supposed to Grow, when we do not take care of ourselves, and each other?
(from my experience with “painful” Persons, plus my own)